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CHARACTER |
This small article on
CHARACTER is true in case of children as well as adults.
“Character” In
grammatical language [Noun] = CHARISMA, PERSON, HONOUR, QUALITY
Nobody denies a person
having a very good CHARACTER. Has anyone thought about the character as
“What is CHARACTER and how it can be formed?” A few of the following
questions arise:
Q1: Who doesn’t want
to have a good character?
Q2: Does our character
reflect our life’s proceedings and value?
Q3: Does our education
system [especially India] help us develop good character?
There may be a couple
of more questions as it is the inevitable subject of discussion, but in short,
there is only one answer. It could be GOOD CHARACTER or BAD CHARACTER. There is
no middle ground. Even our UPANISHADS have primarily focused on CHARACTER, as one
would attest after having gone through it.
Globally, people with good
character are admired and have an enviable image in society. Good character can
improve our life, and increase good prospects in different areas and fields of
life. It opens up new panoramas. We can see life with different aspects and
positive attitudes, but it is reverse in many cases. We look at only one aspect
and have a negative attitude: Full of EGO, Full of selfishness, full of mean
nature.
Parents spend money
and time to groom their children. They give a good education, food and whatever
they want in life. Parents also indulge more and more into the life of their
kids.
NOW, WILL THIS IMPROVE
THE CHARACTER OF KIDS - Ha Ha Ha [Sarcastic Laugh] - The ANSWER is a very BIG
NO.
Character defines
Health and Wealth. The character is not a THING, which can be achieved in seconds.
It is a mysterious formation time to time. It requires very hard work, and smart
work to succeed. We as parents are counted as a base to cultivate good culture
in our children. Parents have to spend a good amount of time teaching or
I say, "guiding" them to change their thoughts and to remove negative
vibes from their mind. It is a parent’s responsibility to ensure that they are given
only good kinds of stuff and thoughts. The friends they make, the scenes they
watch, the games they play, the movies they watch, etc. would definitely
manipulate thoughts and make drastic changes in their thinking, which results
in the change of their CHARACTER.
Now again the question
arises! Whether it is possible to be always around your children? Is it
possible for parents to keep a continuous watch?
It is not possible,
but yes we can give them guidance at regular intervals. We can give them the
independence in their thinking and discuss topics freely with them very
profoundly, rather I would say, debate on those topics. This will create
questions in their mind and the more the questions are developed, the stronger
they become. Their thinking can be moulded to the right path easily.
Beware of your
thoughts, opinions, views, judgments, deliberations, notions, theories, plans, intuition
and imagination as your character is precisely connected with your thoughts. A
common saying goes on from many decades as, "Think positive and you shall get
positive results" So connect the dots and visualize yourself as a person
with good character and you will become one. Focus and visualize strongly on
your dreams, get the power to achieve it and strategize work eventually.
It can be said as that
if you continue to follow your habits[Good or Bad], it will eventually become
your CHARACTER. Think more and more about what you like, and it will definitely
come out as words from your mouth. Do whatever you like repeatedly, and it will
become your habit. Speak about what you want to do many times, and then you
will definitely do it.
I am defining
CHARACTER in my words with 3Ps or P3
Think[Positive]
Speak[Politely] and Do[Perfectly]
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